[cobalt-developers] Raq4: Relay Denied- Any insight?

["Rus Rasmussen" <rus@xxxxxxxxxxx>]

I'm on a Raq4 and recently did several updates from the Cobalt support
site. Everything works fine except that I'm now receiving "Relaying
Denied" errors on any emails I try to send out. 
-Yes, I have read almost every posting in the knowledgebase and support
site. - I was using the POP Before SMTP Relaying feature before the
update and everything was working fine (it meant I didn't have to add
every single IP address of those I wanted to have relay mail as long as
they could POP first--duh, I guess that's the logic behind it. - The POP
update was Poprelayd 2.0-5 Update 1.0.1 - Now, even with the POP Before
SMTP checked on I still have to enter the external IP address of where
I'm at in order to send an email. - I've tried to reboot the server to
see if anything needed to be reset but nada. 
Any ideas would be helpful. I'm not the smartest at this stuff. 
Thanks, 
Rus